Supporting someone who’s struggling with suicidal thoughts can feel daunting. You might worry about saying the wrong thing or making things worse. But in Australia, where over 3 million people have experienced suicidal thoughts and affected communities continue to grow, early connection and compassionate support can change lives.
Here’s a trusted, easy-to-follow guide to help you support a loved one or colleague, with kindness, understanding, and confidence.
1. Recognise the warning signs
People thinking about suicide often show changes in behaviour before they voice suicidal thoughts. Keep an eye out for:
If you notice any of these signs, trust your instincts. Even small changes can be important.
2. Start the conversation – gently but directly
There’s a common fear that talking about suicide could make things worse. But research shows it actually helps. Here’s how to begin:
Take a breath, stay present, and remember, asking won’t make things worse.
3. Listen without judgement
Once they open up, let them talk. Active, empathetic listening can make someone feel less isolated.
Remember: you don’t have to solve their problems, being heard is powerful in itself.
4. Check risk and take action
It’s simple but crucial:
It’s better to act and be safe than risk delay.
5. Help them get support
Suicidal thoughts usually don’t resolve alone. Here’s how you can support them afterward:
Stay connected: check in regularly even after crisis services are involved.
6. Look after yourself, Too
Taking care of someone in crisis is heavy work, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to carry it solo:
Why it works, and why it matters
Active and compassionate support can interrupt the isolation that often fuels suicidal thoughts. According to survivors, feeling heard and having their feelings validated can be a turning point.
By starting the conversation, listening without judgment, and ensuring they’re connected to help, you’re not just saving lives, you’re offering hope.
Next steps: build skills and confidence
If you’d like to feel more prepared, Suicide Programs offers courses like CALM and Be Well, Stay Well that teach how to respond empathetically and safely to suicidal thoughts. These programs are Australian‑based, evidence‑informed, and tailored to real‑world scenarios.
Visit Suicide Programs to learn more about our training and how you can make a difference, one conversation at a time.
You’re not alone, and neither are they
Support isn’t about having all the right words. It’s about showing up, caring genuinely, and being there consistently. With awareness, empathy, and informed action, you can become part of the safety net that helps someone move from crisis to connection and from despair to hope.
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